add directory spider

app/config/config.go

@@ -68,6 +68,11 @@ type C struct {
 	// Spider settings
 	SpiderMode string `env:"ORLY_SPIDER_MODE" default:"none" usage:"spider mode for syncing events: none, follows"`
 
+	// Directory Spider settings
+	DirectorySpiderEnabled  bool          `env:"ORLY_DIRECTORY_SPIDER" default:"false" usage:"enable directory spider for metadata sync (kinds 0, 3, 10000, 10002)"`
+	DirectorySpiderInterval time.Duration `env:"ORLY_DIRECTORY_SPIDER_INTERVAL" default:"24h" usage:"how often to run directory spider"`
+	DirectorySpiderMaxHops  int           `env:"ORLY_DIRECTORY_SPIDER_HOPS" default:"3" usage:"maximum hops for relay discovery from seed users"`
+
 	PolicyEnabled bool `env:"ORLY_POLICY_ENABLED" default:"false" usage:"enable policy-based event processing (configuration found in $HOME/.config/ORLY/policy.json)"`
 
 	// NIP-43 Relay Access Metadata and Requests

app/main.go

@@ -141,6 +141,44 @@ func Run(
 		}
 	}
 
+	// Initialize directory spider if enabled (only for Badger backend)
+	if badgerDB, ok := db.(*database.D); ok && cfg.DirectorySpiderEnabled {
+		if l.directorySpider, err = spider.NewDirectorySpider(
+			ctx,
+			badgerDB,
+			l.publishers,
+			cfg.DirectorySpiderInterval,
+			cfg.DirectorySpiderMaxHops,
+		); chk.E(err) {
+			log.E.F("failed to create directory spider: %v", err)
+		} else {
+			// Set up callback to get seed pubkeys (whitelisted users)
+			l.directorySpider.SetSeedCallback(func() [][]byte {
+				var pubkeys [][]byte
+				// Get followed pubkeys from follows ACL if available
+				for _, aclInstance := range acl.Registry.ACL {
+					if aclInstance.Type() == "follows" {
+						if follows, ok := aclInstance.(*acl.Follows); ok {
+							pubkeys = append(pubkeys, follows.GetFollowedPubkeys()...)
+						}
+					}
+				}
+				// Fall back to admin keys if no follows ACL
+				if len(pubkeys) == 0 {
+					pubkeys = adminKeys
+				}
+				return pubkeys
+			})
+
+			if err = l.directorySpider.Start(); chk.E(err) {
+				log.E.F("failed to start directory spider: %v", err)
+			} else {
+				log.I.F("directory spider started (interval: %v, max hops: %d)",
+					cfg.DirectorySpiderInterval, cfg.DirectorySpiderMaxHops)
+			}
+		}
+	}
+
 	// Initialize relay group manager (only for Badger backend)
 	if badgerDB, ok := db.(*database.D); ok {
 		l.relayGroupMgr = dsync.NewRelayGroupManager(badgerDB, cfg.RelayGroupAdmins)
@@ -360,6 +398,12 @@ func Run(
 			log.I.F("spider manager stopped")
 		}
 
+		// Stop directory spider if running
+		if l.directorySpider != nil {
+			l.directorySpider.Stop()
+			log.I.F("directory spider stopped")
+		}
+
 		// Create shutdown context with timeout
 		shutdownCtx, cancelShutdown := context.WithTimeout(context.Background(), 10*time.Second)
 		defer cancelShutdown()

app/server.go

@@ -48,17 +48,22 @@ type Server struct {
 	challengeMutex sync.RWMutex
 	challenges     map[string][]byte
 
-	paymentProcessor *PaymentProcessor
-	sprocketManager  *SprocketManager
-	policyManager    *policy.P
-	spiderManager    *spider.Spider
-	syncManager      *dsync.Manager
-	relayGroupMgr    *dsync.RelayGroupManager
-	clusterManager   *dsync.ClusterManager
-	blossomServer    *blossom.Server
-	InviteManager    *nip43.InviteManager
-	cfg              *config.C
-	db               database.Database // Changed from *database.D to interface
+	// Message processing pause mutex for policy/follow list updates
+	// Use RLock() for normal message processing, Lock() for updates
+	messagePauseMutex sync.RWMutex
+
+	paymentProcessor  *PaymentProcessor
+	sprocketManager   *SprocketManager
+	policyManager     *policy.P
+	spiderManager     *spider.Spider
+	directorySpider   *spider.DirectorySpider
+	syncManager       *dsync.Manager
+	relayGroupMgr     *dsync.RelayGroupManager
+	clusterManager    *dsync.ClusterManager
+	blossomServer     *blossom.Server
+	InviteManager     *nip43.InviteManager
+	cfg               *config.C
+	db                database.Database // Changed from *database.D to interface
 }
 
 // isIPBlacklisted checks if an IP address is blacklisted using the managed ACL system
@@ -1135,3 +1140,32 @@ func (s *Server) updatePeerAdminACL(peerPubkey []byte) {
 		}
 	}
 }
+
+// =============================================================================
+// Message Processing Pause/Resume for Policy and Follow List Updates
+// =============================================================================
+
+// PauseMessageProcessing acquires an exclusive lock to pause all message processing.
+// This should be called before updating policy configuration or follow lists.
+// Call ResumeMessageProcessing to release the lock after updates are complete.
+func (s *Server) PauseMessageProcessing() {
+	s.messagePauseMutex.Lock()
+}
+
+// ResumeMessageProcessing releases the exclusive lock to resume message processing.
+// This should be called after policy configuration or follow list updates are complete.
+func (s *Server) ResumeMessageProcessing() {
+	s.messagePauseMutex.Unlock()
+}
+
+// AcquireMessageProcessingLock acquires a read lock for normal message processing.
+// This allows concurrent message processing while blocking during policy updates.
+// Call ReleaseMessageProcessingLock when message processing is complete.
+func (s *Server) AcquireMessageProcessingLock() {
+	s.messagePauseMutex.RLock()
+}
+
+// ReleaseMessageProcessingLock releases the read lock after message processing.
+func (s *Server) ReleaseMessageProcessingLock() {
+	s.messagePauseMutex.RUnlock()
+}

pkg/spider/directory.go

@@ -0,0 +1,612 @@
+package spider
+
+import (
+	"context"
+	"sync"
+	"sync/atomic"
+	"time"
+
+	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/crypto/keys"
+	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/encoders/event"
+	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/encoders/filter"
+	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/encoders/kind"
+	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/encoders/tag"
+	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/utils/normalize"
+	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/ws"
+	"lol.mleku.dev/chk"
+	"lol.mleku.dev/errorf"
+	"lol.mleku.dev/log"
+	"next.orly.dev/pkg/database"
+	"next.orly.dev/pkg/interfaces/publisher"
+	dsync "next.orly.dev/pkg/sync"
+)
+
+const (
+	// DirectorySpiderDefaultInterval is how often the directory spider runs
+	DirectorySpiderDefaultInterval = 24 * time.Hour
+	// DirectorySpiderDefaultMaxHops is the maximum hop distance for relay discovery
+	DirectorySpiderDefaultMaxHops = 3
+	// DirectorySpiderRelayTimeout is the timeout for connecting to and querying a relay
+	DirectorySpiderRelayTimeout = 30 * time.Second
+	// DirectorySpiderQueryTimeout is the timeout for waiting for EOSE on a query
+	DirectorySpiderQueryTimeout = 60 * time.Second
+	// DirectorySpiderRelayDelay is the delay between processing relays (rate limiting)
+	DirectorySpiderRelayDelay = 500 * time.Millisecond
+	// DirectorySpiderMaxEventsPerQuery is the limit for each query
+	DirectorySpiderMaxEventsPerQuery = 5000
+)
+
+// DirectorySpider manages periodic relay discovery and metadata synchronization.
+// It discovers relays by crawling kind 10002 (relay list) events, expanding outward
+// in hops from seed pubkeys (whitelisted users), then fetches essential metadata
+// events (kinds 0, 3, 10000, 10002) from all discovered relays.
+type DirectorySpider struct {
+	ctx    context.Context
+	cancel context.CancelFunc
+	db     *database.D
+	pub    publisher.I
+
+	// Configuration
+	interval time.Duration
+	maxHops  int
+
+	// State
+	running atomic.Bool
+	lastRun time.Time
+
+	// Relay discovery state (reset each run)
+	mu               sync.Mutex
+	discoveredRelays map[string]int  // URL -> hop distance
+	processedRelays  map[string]bool // Already fetched metadata from
+
+	// Self-detection
+	relayIdentityPubkey string
+	selfURLs            map[string]bool
+	nip11Cache          *dsync.NIP11Cache
+
+	// Callback for getting seed pubkeys (whitelisted users)
+	getSeedPubkeys func() [][]byte
+
+	// Trigger channel for manual runs
+	triggerChan chan struct{}
+}
+
+// NewDirectorySpider creates a new DirectorySpider instance.
+func NewDirectorySpider(
+	ctx context.Context,
+	db *database.D,
+	pub publisher.I,
+	interval time.Duration,
+	maxHops int,
+) (ds *DirectorySpider, err error) {
+	if db == nil {
+		err = errorf.E("database cannot be nil")
+		return
+	}
+
+	if interval <= 0 {
+		interval = DirectorySpiderDefaultInterval
+	}
+	if maxHops <= 0 {
+		maxHops = DirectorySpiderDefaultMaxHops
+	}
+
+	ctx, cancel := context.WithCancel(ctx)
+
+	// Get relay identity pubkey for self-detection
+	var relayPubkey string
+	if skb, err := db.GetRelayIdentitySecret(); err == nil && len(skb) == 32 {
+		pk, _ := keys.SecretBytesToPubKeyHex(skb)
+		relayPubkey = pk
+	}
+
+	ds = &DirectorySpider{
+		ctx:                 ctx,
+		cancel:              cancel,
+		db:                  db,
+		pub:                 pub,
+		interval:            interval,
+		maxHops:             maxHops,
+		discoveredRelays:    make(map[string]int),
+		processedRelays:     make(map[string]bool),
+		relayIdentityPubkey: relayPubkey,
+		selfURLs:            make(map[string]bool),
+		nip11Cache:          dsync.NewNIP11Cache(30 * time.Minute),
+		triggerChan:         make(chan struct{}, 1),
+	}
+
+	return
+}
+
+// SetSeedCallback sets the callback function for getting seed pubkeys (whitelisted users).
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) SetSeedCallback(getSeedPubkeys func() [][]byte) {
+	ds.mu.Lock()
+	defer ds.mu.Unlock()
+	ds.getSeedPubkeys = getSeedPubkeys
+}
+
+// Start begins the directory spider operation.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) Start() (err error) {
+	if ds.running.Load() {
+		err = errorf.E("directory spider already running")
+		return
+	}
+
+	if ds.getSeedPubkeys == nil {
+		err = errorf.E("seed callback must be set before starting")
+		return
+	}
+
+	ds.running.Store(true)
+	go ds.mainLoop()
+
+	log.I.F("directory spider: started (interval: %v, max hops: %d)", ds.interval, ds.maxHops)
+	return
+}
+
+// Stop stops the directory spider operation.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) Stop() {
+	if !ds.running.Load() {
+		return
+	}
+
+	ds.running.Store(false)
+	ds.cancel()
+
+	log.I.F("directory spider: stopped")
+}
+
+// TriggerNow forces an immediate run of the directory spider.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) TriggerNow() {
+	select {
+	case ds.triggerChan <- struct{}{}:
+		log.I.F("directory spider: manual trigger sent")
+	default:
+		log.I.F("directory spider: trigger already pending")
+	}
+}
+
+// LastRun returns the time of the last completed run.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) LastRun() time.Time {
+	ds.mu.Lock()
+	defer ds.mu.Unlock()
+	return ds.lastRun
+}
+
+// mainLoop is the main spider loop that runs periodically.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) mainLoop() {
+	// Run immediately on start
+	ds.runOnce()
+
+	ticker := time.NewTicker(ds.interval)
+	defer ticker.Stop()
+
+	log.I.F("directory spider: main loop started, running every %v", ds.interval)
+
+	for {
+		select {
+		case <-ds.ctx.Done():
+			return
+		case <-ds.triggerChan:
+			log.I.F("directory spider: manual trigger received")
+			ds.runOnce()
+		case <-ticker.C:
+			log.I.F("directory spider: scheduled run triggered")
+			ds.runOnce()
+		}
+	}
+}
+
+// runOnce performs a single directory spider run.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) runOnce() {
+	if !ds.running.Load() {
+		return
+	}
+
+	log.I.F("directory spider: starting run")
+	start := time.Now()
+
+	// Reset state for this run
+	ds.mu.Lock()
+	ds.discoveredRelays = make(map[string]int)
+	ds.processedRelays = make(map[string]bool)
+	ds.mu.Unlock()
+
+	// Phase 1: Discover relays via hop expansion
+	if err := ds.discoverRelays(); err != nil {
+		log.E.F("directory spider: relay discovery failed: %v", err)
+		return
+	}
+
+	ds.mu.Lock()
+	relayCount := len(ds.discoveredRelays)
+	ds.mu.Unlock()
+
+	log.I.F("directory spider: discovered %d relays", relayCount)
+
+	// Phase 2: Fetch metadata from all discovered relays
+	if err := ds.fetchMetadataFromRelays(); err != nil {
+		log.E.F("directory spider: metadata fetch failed: %v", err)
+		return
+	}
+
+	ds.mu.Lock()
+	ds.lastRun = time.Now()
+	ds.mu.Unlock()
+
+	log.I.F("directory spider: completed run in %v", time.Since(start))
+}
+
+// discoverRelays performs the multi-hop relay discovery.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) discoverRelays() error {
+	// Get seed pubkeys from callback
+	seedPubkeys := ds.getSeedPubkeys()
+	if len(seedPubkeys) == 0 {
+		log.W.F("directory spider: no seed pubkeys available")
+		return nil
+	}
+
+	log.I.F("directory spider: starting relay discovery with %d seed pubkeys", len(seedPubkeys))
+
+	// Round 0: Get relay lists from seed pubkeys in local database
+	seedRelays, err := ds.getRelaysFromLocalDB(seedPubkeys)
+	if err != nil {
+		return errorf.W("failed to get relays from local DB: %v", err)
+	}
+
+	// Add seed relays at hop 0
+	ds.mu.Lock()
+	for _, url := range seedRelays {
+		if !ds.isSelfRelay(url) {
+			ds.discoveredRelays[url] = 0
+		}
+	}
+	ds.mu.Unlock()
+
+	log.I.F("directory spider: found %d seed relays from local database", len(seedRelays))
+
+	// Rounds 1 to maxHops: Expand outward
+	for hop := 1; hop <= ds.maxHops; hop++ {
+		select {
+		case <-ds.ctx.Done():
+			return ds.ctx.Err()
+		default:
+		}
+
+		// Get relays at previous hop level that haven't been processed
+		ds.mu.Lock()
+		var relaysToProcess []string
+		for url, hopLevel := range ds.discoveredRelays {
+			if hopLevel == hop-1 && !ds.processedRelays[url] {
+				relaysToProcess = append(relaysToProcess, url)
+			}
+		}
+		ds.mu.Unlock()
+
+		if len(relaysToProcess) == 0 {
+			log.I.F("directory spider: no relays to process at hop %d", hop)
+			break
+		}
+
+		log.I.F("directory spider: hop %d - processing %d relays", hop, len(relaysToProcess))
+
+		newRelaysThisHop := 0
+
+		// Process each relay serially
+		for _, relayURL := range relaysToProcess {
+			select {
+			case <-ds.ctx.Done():
+				return ds.ctx.Err()
+			default:
+			}
+
+			// Fetch kind 10002 events from this relay
+			events, err := ds.fetchRelayListsFromRelay(relayURL)
+			if err != nil {
+				log.W.F("directory spider: failed to fetch from %s: %v", relayURL, err)
+				// Mark as processed even on failure to avoid retrying
+				ds.mu.Lock()
+				ds.processedRelays[relayURL] = true
+				ds.mu.Unlock()
+				continue
+			}
+
+			// Extract new relay URLs
+			newRelays := ds.extractRelaysFromEvents(events)
+
+			ds.mu.Lock()
+			ds.processedRelays[relayURL] = true
+			for _, newURL := range newRelays {
+				if _, exists := ds.discoveredRelays[newURL]; !exists {
+					if !ds.isSelfRelay(newURL) {
+						ds.discoveredRelays[newURL] = hop
+						newRelaysThisHop++
+					}
+				}
+			}
+			ds.mu.Unlock()
+
+			// Rate limiting delay between relays
+			time.Sleep(DirectorySpiderRelayDelay)
+		}
+
+		log.I.F("directory spider: hop %d - discovered %d new relays", hop, newRelaysThisHop)
+	}
+
+	return nil
+}
+
+// getRelaysFromLocalDB queries the local database for kind 10002 events from seed pubkeys.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) getRelaysFromLocalDB(seedPubkeys [][]byte) ([]string, error) {
+	ctx, cancel := context.WithTimeout(ds.ctx, 30*time.Second)
+	defer cancel()
+
+	// Query for kind 10002 from seed pubkeys
+	f := &filter.F{
+		Authors: tag.NewFromBytesSlice(seedPubkeys...),
+		Kinds:   kind.NewS(kind.New(kind.RelayListMetadata.K)),
+	}
+
+	events, err := ds.db.QueryEvents(ctx, f)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, err
+	}
+
+	return ds.extractRelaysFromEvents(events), nil
+}
+
+// fetchRelayListsFromRelay connects to a relay and fetches all kind 10002 events.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) fetchRelayListsFromRelay(relayURL string) ([]*event.E, error) {
+	ctx, cancel := context.WithTimeout(ds.ctx, DirectorySpiderRelayTimeout)
+	defer cancel()
+
+	log.D.F("directory spider: connecting to %s", relayURL)
+
+	client, err := ws.RelayConnect(ctx, relayURL)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, errorf.W("failed to connect: %v", err)
+	}
+	defer client.Close()
+
+	// Query for all kind 10002 events
+	limit := uint(DirectorySpiderMaxEventsPerQuery)
+	f := filter.NewS(&filter.F{
+		Kinds: kind.NewS(kind.New(kind.RelayListMetadata.K)),
+		Limit: &limit,
+	})
+
+	sub, err := client.Subscribe(ctx, f)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, errorf.W("failed to subscribe: %v", err)
+	}
+	defer sub.Unsub()
+
+	var events []*event.E
+	queryCtx, queryCancel := context.WithTimeout(ctx, DirectorySpiderQueryTimeout)
+	defer queryCancel()
+
+	// Collect events until EOSE or timeout
+	for {
+		select {
+		case <-queryCtx.Done():
+			log.D.F("directory spider: query timeout for %s, got %d events", relayURL, len(events))
+			return events, nil
+		case <-sub.EndOfStoredEvents:
+			log.D.F("directory spider: EOSE from %s, got %d events", relayURL, len(events))
+			return events, nil
+		case ev := <-sub.Events:
+			if ev == nil {
+				return events, nil
+			}
+			events = append(events, ev)
+		}
+	}
+}
+
+// extractRelaysFromEvents parses kind 10002 events and extracts relay URLs from "r" tags.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) extractRelaysFromEvents(events []*event.E) []string {
+	seen := make(map[string]bool)
+	var relays []string
+
+	for _, ev := range events {
+		// Get all "r" tags
+		rTags := ev.Tags.GetAll([]byte("r"))
+		for _, rTag := range rTags {
+			if len(rTag.T) < 2 {
+				continue
+			}
+			urlBytes := rTag.Value()
+			if len(urlBytes) == 0 {
+				continue
+			}
+
+			// Normalize the URL
+			normalized := string(normalize.URL(string(urlBytes)))
+			if normalized == "" {
+				continue
+			}
+
+			if !seen[normalized] {
+				seen[normalized] = true
+				relays = append(relays, normalized)
+			}
+		}
+	}
+
+	return relays
+}
+
+// fetchMetadataFromRelays iterates through all discovered relays and fetches metadata.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) fetchMetadataFromRelays() error {
+	ds.mu.Lock()
+	// Copy relay list to avoid holding lock during network operations
+	var relays []string
+	for url := range ds.discoveredRelays {
+		relays = append(relays, url)
+	}
+	ds.mu.Unlock()
+
+	log.I.F("directory spider: fetching metadata from %d relays", len(relays))
+
+	// Kinds to fetch: 0 (profile), 3 (follow list), 10000 (mute list), 10002 (relay list)
+	kindsToFetch := []uint16{
+		kind.ProfileMetadata.K,   // 0
+		kind.FollowList.K,        // 3
+		kind.MuteList.K,          // 10000
+		kind.RelayListMetadata.K, // 10002
+	}
+
+	totalSaved := 0
+	totalDuplicates := 0
+
+	for _, relayURL := range relays {
+		select {
+		case <-ds.ctx.Done():
+			return ds.ctx.Err()
+		default:
+		}
+
+		ds.mu.Lock()
+		alreadyProcessed := ds.processedRelays[relayURL]
+		ds.mu.Unlock()
+
+		if alreadyProcessed {
+			continue
+		}
+
+		log.D.F("directory spider: fetching metadata from %s", relayURL)
+
+		for _, k := range kindsToFetch {
+			select {
+			case <-ds.ctx.Done():
+				return ds.ctx.Err()
+			default:
+			}
+
+			events, err := ds.fetchKindFromRelay(relayURL, k)
+			if err != nil {
+				log.W.F("directory spider: failed to fetch kind %d from %s: %v", k, relayURL, err)
+				continue
+			}
+
+			saved, duplicates := ds.storeEvents(events)
+			totalSaved += saved
+			totalDuplicates += duplicates
+
+			log.D.F("directory spider: kind %d from %s: %d saved, %d duplicates",
+				k, relayURL, saved, duplicates)
+		}
+
+		ds.mu.Lock()
+		ds.processedRelays[relayURL] = true
+		ds.mu.Unlock()
+
+		// Rate limiting delay between relays
+		time.Sleep(DirectorySpiderRelayDelay)
+	}
+
+	log.I.F("directory spider: metadata fetch complete - %d events saved, %d duplicates",
+		totalSaved, totalDuplicates)
+
+	return nil
+}
+
+// fetchKindFromRelay connects to a relay and fetches events of a specific kind.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) fetchKindFromRelay(relayURL string, k uint16) ([]*event.E, error) {
+	ctx, cancel := context.WithTimeout(ds.ctx, DirectorySpiderRelayTimeout)
+	defer cancel()
+
+	client, err := ws.RelayConnect(ctx, relayURL)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, errorf.W("failed to connect: %v", err)
+	}
+	defer client.Close()
+
+	// Query for events of this kind
+	limit := uint(DirectorySpiderMaxEventsPerQuery)
+	f := filter.NewS(&filter.F{
+		Kinds: kind.NewS(kind.New(k)),
+		Limit: &limit,
+	})
+
+	sub, err := client.Subscribe(ctx, f)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, errorf.W("failed to subscribe: %v", err)
+	}
+	defer sub.Unsub()
+
+	var events []*event.E
+	queryCtx, queryCancel := context.WithTimeout(ctx, DirectorySpiderQueryTimeout)
+	defer queryCancel()
+
+	for {
+		select {
+		case <-queryCtx.Done():
+			return events, nil
+		case <-sub.EndOfStoredEvents:
+			return events, nil
+		case ev := <-sub.Events:
+			if ev == nil {
+				return events, nil
+			}
+			events = append(events, ev)
+		}
+	}
+}
+
+// storeEvents saves events to the database and publishes new ones.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) storeEvents(events []*event.E) (saved, duplicates int) {
+	for _, ev := range events {
+		_, err := ds.db.SaveEvent(ds.ctx, ev)
+		if err != nil {
+			if chk.T(err) {
+				// Most errors are duplicates, which is expected
+				duplicates++
+			}
+			continue
+		}
+		saved++
+
+		// Publish event to active subscribers
+		if ds.pub != nil {
+			go ds.pub.Deliver(ev)
+		}
+	}
+	return
+}
+
+// isSelfRelay checks if a relay URL is ourselves by comparing NIP-11 pubkeys.
+func (ds *DirectorySpider) isSelfRelay(relayURL string) bool {
+	// If we don't have a relay identity pubkey, can't compare
+	if ds.relayIdentityPubkey == "" {
+		return false
+	}
+
+	ds.mu.Lock()
+	// Fast path: check if we already know this URL is ours
+	if ds.selfURLs[relayURL] {
+		ds.mu.Unlock()
+		return true
+	}
+	ds.mu.Unlock()
+
+	// Slow path: check via NIP-11 pubkey
+	ctx, cancel := context.WithTimeout(context.Background(), 5*time.Second)
+	defer cancel()
+
+	peerPubkey, err := ds.nip11Cache.GetPubkey(ctx, relayURL)
+	if err != nil {
+		// Can't determine, assume not self
+		return false
+	}
+
+	if peerPubkey == ds.relayIdentityPubkey {
+		log.D.F("directory spider: discovered self-relay: %s", relayURL)
+		ds.mu.Lock()
+		ds.selfURLs[relayURL] = true
+		ds.mu.Unlock()
+		return true
+	}
+
+	return false
+}

pkg/spider/directory_test.go

@@ -0,0 +1,166 @@
+package spider
+
+import (
+	"context"
+	"testing"
+	"time"
+
+	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/encoders/event"
+	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/encoders/kind"
+	"git.mleku.dev/mleku/nostr/encoders/tag"
+	"github.com/stretchr/testify/assert"
+	"github.com/stretchr/testify/require"
+)
+
+func TestExtractRelaysFromEvents(t *testing.T) {
+	ds := &DirectorySpider{}
+
+	tests := []struct {
+		name     string
+		events   []*event.E
+		expected []string
+	}{
+		{
+			name:     "empty events",
+			events:   []*event.E{},
+			expected: []string{},
+		},
+		{
+			name: "single event with relays",
+			events: []*event.E{
+				{
+					Kind: kind.RelayListMetadata.K,
+					Tags: &tag.S{
+						tag.NewFromBytesSlice([]byte("r"), []byte("wss://relay1.example.com")),
+						tag.NewFromBytesSlice([]byte("r"), []byte("wss://relay2.example.com")),
+					},
+				},
+			},
+			expected: []string{"wss://relay1.example.com", "wss://relay2.example.com"},
+		},
+		{
+			name: "multiple events with duplicate relays",
+			events: []*event.E{
+				{
+					Kind: kind.RelayListMetadata.K,
+					Tags: &tag.S{
+						tag.NewFromBytesSlice([]byte("r"), []byte("wss://relay1.example.com")),
+					},
+				},
+				{
+					Kind: kind.RelayListMetadata.K,
+					Tags: &tag.S{
+						tag.NewFromBytesSlice([]byte("r"), []byte("wss://relay1.example.com")),
+						tag.NewFromBytesSlice([]byte("r"), []byte("wss://relay3.example.com")),
+					},
+				},
+			},
+			expected: []string{"wss://relay1.example.com", "wss://relay3.example.com"},
+		},
+		{
+			name: "event with empty r tags",
+			events: []*event.E{
+				{
+					Kind: kind.RelayListMetadata.K,
+					Tags: &tag.S{
+						tag.NewFromBytesSlice([]byte("r")), // empty value
+						tag.NewFromBytesSlice([]byte("r"), []byte("wss://valid.relay.com")),
+					},
+				},
+			},
+			expected: []string{"wss://valid.relay.com"},
+		},
+		{
+			name: "normalizes relay URLs",
+			events: []*event.E{
+				{
+					Kind: kind.RelayListMetadata.K,
+					Tags: &tag.S{
+						tag.NewFromBytesSlice([]byte("r"), []byte("wss://relay.example.com")),
+						tag.NewFromBytesSlice([]byte("r"), []byte("wss://relay.example.com/")), // duplicate with trailing slash
+					},
+				},
+			},
+			expected: []string{"wss://relay.example.com"},
+		},
+	}
+
+	for _, tt := range tests {
+		t.Run(tt.name, func(t *testing.T) {
+			result := ds.extractRelaysFromEvents(tt.events)
+
+			// For empty case, check length
+			if len(tt.expected) == 0 {
+				assert.Empty(t, result)
+				return
+			}
+
+			// Check that all expected relays are present (order may vary)
+			assert.Len(t, result, len(tt.expected))
+			for _, expected := range tt.expected {
+				assert.Contains(t, result, expected)
+			}
+		})
+	}
+}
+
+func TestDirectorySpiderLifecycle(t *testing.T) {
+	ctx, cancel := context.WithCancel(context.Background())
+	defer cancel()
+
+	// Create spider without database (will return error)
+	_, err := NewDirectorySpider(ctx, nil, nil, 0, 0)
+	require.Error(t, err)
+	assert.Contains(t, err.Error(), "database cannot be nil")
+}
+
+func TestDirectorySpiderDefaults(t *testing.T) {
+	// Test that defaults are applied correctly
+	assert.Equal(t, 24*time.Hour, DirectorySpiderDefaultInterval)
+	assert.Equal(t, 3, DirectorySpiderDefaultMaxHops)
+	assert.Equal(t, 30*time.Second, DirectorySpiderRelayTimeout)
+	assert.Equal(t, 60*time.Second, DirectorySpiderQueryTimeout)
+	assert.Equal(t, 500*time.Millisecond, DirectorySpiderRelayDelay)
+	assert.Equal(t, 5000, DirectorySpiderMaxEventsPerQuery)
+}
+
+func TestTriggerNow(t *testing.T) {
+	ctx, cancel := context.WithCancel(context.Background())
+	defer cancel()
+
+	ds := &DirectorySpider{
+		ctx:         ctx,
+		triggerChan: make(chan struct{}, 1),
+	}
+
+	// First trigger should succeed
+	ds.TriggerNow()
+
+	// Verify trigger was sent
+	select {
+	case <-ds.triggerChan:
+		// Expected
+	default:
+		t.Error("trigger was not sent")
+	}
+
+	// Second trigger while channel is empty should also succeed
+	ds.TriggerNow()
+
+	// But if we trigger again without draining, it should not block
+	ds.TriggerNow() // Should not block due to select default case
+}
+
+func TestLastRun(t *testing.T) {
+	ds := &DirectorySpider{}
+
+	// Initially should be zero
+	assert.True(t, ds.LastRun().IsZero())
+
+	// Set a time
+	now := time.Now()
+	ds.lastRun = now
+
+	// Should return the set time
+	assert.Equal(t, now, ds.LastRun())
+}